Apologies for the long sabbatical, life got in the way! Terrible excuse, I know, but please accept this post as an apology!
The Atlantic posted a short video inspired from a series of films based on the book Marriage for Moderns by Henry A. Bowman. “Choosing for Happiness” is a dating how-to guide for young women in 1950. Mary, the narrator, is relatively unfamiliar with the social scene on her college campus and looks to her friend Eve for advice on dating and men.
The video’s a bit long, and of course, girls were married at 19 then, but here are the lessons I’ve learned that be applied to 21st Century dating:
- Don’t try to change a guy.
- Spend long afternoons with a man, not long nights.
- You can’t trust a guy that’s all eyes and smiles.
- When a man says he doesn’t think of you as a woman, leave….now!
- A guy saying that someone should take you across his knee and give you a spanking does not mean the fun sort of spanking.
What do you think? Anything in the video that’s still useful?